Meeting #4 Prep Questions Genesis 21-28

Last week we didn’t make it last time to Chapters 21 and 25 but please refer to #3’s Questions & Thoughts for these chapters.

Chapter 26
Isaac displays the exact lack of faith that Abraham had before in chapter 20.  He even uses the same lie about Rebekah being his sister.  And right after God’s promise to be with him.

Could Isarel’s relationship with the Philistines have been different in the future if they’d displayed more understanding with them?  They don’t seem to be witnessing to God’s trustworthiness by not being trust worthy themselves.

Chapter 27
There seems to be a lot of division in Isaac’s household – reminiscent of Abraham’s own household issues with Hagar and Ishmael and Sarah’s own descent and whining.   How could Rebekah be so deceitful?

We so often get in the way of God’s plan for us, cutting Him off at the pass – if we would have/will wait/ed what else could He do in our lives?  It doesn’t seem like God has any shortage of great plans for everyone in Abraham’s family.

Chapter 28
So many times God has appeared to the “outcast” in these stories, showing that He cares deeply about the underdog.  His promises are not just with His favorites, but with anyone who is willing to take part in them.

Abraham: Patron Saint of Relocators

I’ve always found the story of Abraham comforting.  My family was constantly moving.  I lived in five states, a territory and eight houses, before college and my post-college life hasn’t been much more stable.

Through our traveling my parents would always point to Abraham and say, “God has led us here and He will take care of us just as He did Abraham.”

It was sometimes hard to see, and there is sometimes pain in leaving and starting over again and again and again.   But after a few new starts from scratch you begin to see that He IS helping everything work out.

Slowly, slowly, you know that next time you have to start over again He will be by your side the entire time.  When you realize that God is there you also know that as fragile as your world may seem when things go wrong seemingly constantly, you can get through it all and more.

I have had a happy blessed life with little tragedy, but I have confidence that when tragedy should come I will be already rooted in my relationship with God and have the evidence to trust that He will always be with me.

“When I think of the wisdom and scope of God’s plan, I fall to my knees and pray to the Father, the Creator of everything… I pray that from his glorious unlimited resources he will give you mighty inner strength through his holy spirit.  And I pray that Christ will be more and more at home in your hearts as you trust in him.  May your roots go down deep into the soil of God’s marvelous love.  And may you have the power to understand, as all God’s people should, how wide, how long, how high, and how deep his love really is.  May you experience the love of Christ, through it is so great you will never fully understand it.  Then you will be filled with the fullness of life and power that comes from God.”
-From Paul’s letter to the church in Ephesus 3:14-19

Meeting # 3 Wrap Up

Our third meeting was a little raucous – careful when reading Genesis! There’s no subtle language here, from circumcision to gore to incest to fire and brimstone – oh my!

This week we focused primarily on the first part of Abraham’s life.  This story proves to us over and over that God has a special plan for Abraham even though Abraham keeps falling and picking up and falling again.  There’s no doubt that Abraham isn’t perfect, but that he does seek God and keep looking for Him.

Last week we discussed the victims of the flood.  Could God really expect them to get in the boat when they had no idea what was about to happen?  But then Noah and his family DO get into the boat, and Abraham DOES leave his home country and go where God leads, without knowing what will happen.  God takes it slowly, He doesn’t give Abraham too much, or ask him to do everything at once.  God treats Abraham gently and constantly assures him of His promise to care and make Abraham prosperous.

We noticed that Abraham lives in tents.  This is interesting because it allows you to pick up and go when God sends you somewhere else.  Could this tent living be a metaphor for our own lives on Earth?  In our fallible bodies?  It also reminds us of the upcoming story of the Passover when God wanted the Children of Israel to have shoes on and food ready for immediate exodus from Egypt (but more on that soon!)

God continues to bless Abraham, even though he isn’t perfect and he keeps failing.  What does this tell us about God?  God continues to treat Abraham as if he will make a better choice, or make the right choice.  Though of course if God lives outside of time He sees everything we do before we’ve even begun to think it, but that He can reach out to us, and treat us as if He doesn’t see all things speaks volumes about his love, mercy and trustworthiness.

It seemed to us that God seems to always have a plan/promise and in-spite and despite our own failings the plan continues.  Truth moves forward.  We can choose to be a part of it, but God cannot twist our arm or drag us down that path by our hair.  If we aren’t interested He simply looks for someone that is interested in carrying His plan to fruition.  Which led us to ask, “Do human actions matter?”  If He can do all things and Truth will continue then do we matter?  But we also agreed that it’s important to qualify that while we may believe that God’s Truth continues, we don’t believe in pre-destination, the idea that some people will be saved no matter what and others won’t.  I.S. used the example that a parent often has dreams and plans for their children.  But when the children grow up they may not want to follow the dreams of the parent and insist on going down a destructive road.  They may ultimately decide to switch directions and return to our hopes for them, or they may not, but our hopes and dreams as parents are always the same.  She continued that if you have more children than it seems obvious that eventually ONE of them would connect with your hopes.  This seemed to be a good analogy to our group.

Then the story of Ishmael.  Even though this doesn’t seem to be part of God’s original plan with A&S, He blesses Ishmael and Hagaar just the same.  Sarah shows very little faith through the whole story.  We wondered if maybe she is following some of Abraham’s weaker moments as leader of the house?

And then the conversation about circumcision.  Why this symbol of allegiance to God?  Hilariously awkward conversation ensued.  But you had to be there!

The story of Sodom & Gomorrah.  We all agreed that the conversation between God and Abraham as God shares His plan to destroy Sodom was particularly moving.  It really shows their deep friendship and willingness to discuss and listen to each other.  Even that Abraham felt at liberty to discuss and argue.  What kind of a god let’s you argue and disagree?  A tyrannical one?  Or a god that values choice, freedom and relationship?

Reading the story of Sodom was gross, it seems like a truly awful place.  And even Lot – who is rescued with his family doesn’t seem to be much better than the perverts in the town.  “Let me give you my virgin daughters, don’t rape my guests oh good townsmen!”  Ummm…..  But even the destruction is something God says He’s going to do because He has heard the cries of the victims of the city.  Some virgin girls?

We all agreed that God gives human’s a lot of leeway for failure if we show even the slightest interest in following Him.  Lot isn’t good, he doesn’t really care about living God’s way, and yet he’s dragged out of the city by the angels who have come to rescue just the five most marginally good people.

And then the birth of the Moabites and Ammonites from Lot and his two daughters.  But even from this, comes Ruth, a Moabite, who was part of David’s lineage and eventually Jesus’ heritage.  Even this awful choice is something God works with.  Over and over in just these chapters we see God working and working to help us.  To reach out His hands to us in friendship and love.

More Abraham next week!  Hope if you missed this meeting you’ll be able to be there on Tuesday!  You don’t want to miss Abraham!

Meeting #3 Prep Questions Genesis 12-25

Here some of my questions and comments as I read through this section for Tuesday, August 2.  Please read the section and bring your questions and thoughts about what this portion of the text is saying about who God tomorrow.

12:1 Is God demanding?
12:2 Why does God heap these promises on Abram?
12:4 Why does Abram just pick up and go?  Does he have some reason to trust that what God promised will be true?  Might he already have a relationship with God?
12:13 And yet….. Abram doesn’t seem to trust God enough to take care of him       in this situation which seems much smaller than picking up everything and moving!  And he’s not really lying, it’s kind of true!

This seems like a weird thing, if they don’t think she’s your wife why wouldn’t they hesitate to take her?  Are we missing some cultural aspect of this story?

13:15 Maybe Abram can give Lot whichever because he knows God will take care of the rest?

14:23 Does he want to make sure God gets all the credit?  Or is he just very independent?

15:5 From God: “Trust me with your future!”
15:6 “And God declared him “Set-right-with-God.” -Message
15:9 strange….

16:10 Even the lowly maid isn’t too lowly for God to take care of.

17:1 God doesn’t seem to want Abraham to forget that He will take care of him.
What does God see in Abram that He wants to/ feels He can make this forever                   promise with him?
17:10 Why does God choose circumcision as the mark of being His people?  “So that my covenant will be cut into your bodies” This seems very strange.  Thoughts?
17:20 Again God takes care of the underdog son Ishmael

18:12 Sarah doesn’t seem to trust God nearly as much as Abraham does.
18:17 God shows His candid friendship with Abraham.
18:20 Like before the flood God doesn’t seem displeased with Sodom & Gomorrah because they don’t have a good relationship with Him, but because of the violence and the victims that suffer there.
18:23 Abraham feels free to question God, “But God, I know you to be different, would you act so unjustly?”
18:25 “…Doesn’t the Judge of all the Earth judge with justice?”
18:32 What history must Abraham have to know that he could talk to God this way?  What do God’s answers say about Him?

19 This story is pretty X rated, Sodom seems a truly wicked place.
19:8 Lot seems very evil.  What about his poor “virgin” daughters?
19:13 Again it seems to be because of the victims of this awful place.  Why does God not rain down fire and brimstone when enough people cry out to Him now?  Does He not listen?
19:16 Even Lot doesn’t really seem like he cares, he has to be drug out of the city.  Even the “good” people aren’t really that good.
19:21 The angels seem to let Lot have some choice and freedom in the decision.
19:24 What do you think of this?
19:26 This also seems sort of drastic.  “Don’t do what I say and BAM! pillar of salt!”  Tyrannical much?
19:31 This doesn’t seem to trust God at all with their future.  Skeezy.  Doesn’t Lot realize what happened when his daughters get pregnant?
19:37-38 These people come back to haunt the Israelites later.

20:2 WHAT?!  Again? Come on…..
20:11 Abraham sounds pretty condescending here.
20:12 Here’s where the “truth” of the lie comes out.
20:13 Clearly Abraham learned nothing from the first experiment in lying about his sister/wife.

22 This is a tough chapter.  Does God really want Abraham to kill Isaac?  Does God condone child sacrifice?  Why does Abraham not question God like he did in Sodom story?  What does Isaac think?  Has Abraham realized he truly can trust God with his future?  Why does God need to “test” Abraham like this?

23:11 Abraham seems to have built a very positive reputation among the people that he lives.

24 Does Abraham seem to have a mature relationship with God?

25:26 Reminds us of Genesis 3:15

I look forward to seeing you all tomorrow!

 

Meeting #2 Wrap Up

This week we talked about Genesis 3-11 which covered the topics of Cain & Abel and Noah and the flood.  Yet again we’re faced with some pretty dense material in a short amount of space.

Genesis 4 – Cain Abel & Seth
Here we have the first offering mentioned in the Bible.  We wondered if God has already made specific requests of them ‘Bring me your first born lambs,’ and if He hasn’t, then it seems unfair to not accept Cain’s offering.  It would be like telling your friend to bring desert to a party, and when she shows up with a delicious peach galette you fly into a rage that she didn’t bring you chocolate cake.

When Cain isn’t accepted he rushes out and kills Abel, which seems rash.  It’s sad to see how fast things are going down hill for mankind!

We also noticed here how God seems to still come and talk directly with this family.  They have been sent out of the Garden of Eden, but God is still coming to meet with them like He has before.  Just like in 3:9 when God calls out to A&E “Where are you?” He called out to Cain in 4:9 “Where is your brother?”  Obviously if He knows all, He knows both of these times, but it seems winsome to me that He would ask – very much like He desires a conversation and a relationship.

Then the curse on Cain.  Some of our group found this harsh of God.  It was brought up that it seems to be taking away the free choice of people to kill Cain, and if this is the case why didn’t God take away Cain’s ability to kill Abel in the first place?

Cain complains that God’s being to harsh (sounds like a whiney baby to me and not a repentant man) and God reaches out and tells him that he will be protected from possible revenge.

4:26 “It was during his lifetime that people first began to worship the Lord.”  We talked about this and what it might mean.  “Maybe God sees the world getting more sinful and He can’t be where sin is so He distances Himself?”  But I disagreed because sin was in the Garden, and our world was sinful when Jesus came, so this cannot be true.

One in our group likened this to the distance that happens between parents and children when they move out of the house.  The parents didn’t go anywhere but the children need to call and reach out with an effort since they have left.  I liked that the woman who talked about this added, ‘I never truly understood the love of God until I had my children and then so much about the whole thing made sense to me.’

Genesis 6 – The Flood
In this chapter we came to all kinds of good discussion points.

Well first we asked if this make God seem exacting? “Don’t follow me?  I’m done with the lot of you!”  And if there was someone preaching in our town about some natural disaster we’d never heard of would we believe him?

And more importantly, this seems like a band-aid approach to the real problem – sin!  Can’t God just solve the real problem?  How can we say that He is all knowing and all powerful if He can’t just end what really needs to end – the source of all evil.

But this all brings us back around to the real and true problem – that God desires love and love cannot be commanded.  We could wonder about God’s loving nature if He just “woke up one day” and sent a flood with no warning because people weren’t following Him.  But it says that he decided on the flood not because people weren’t following Him but because they were violent and evil towards each other.  He does create destruction but He also gives a way out to Noah – the specific instruction for the ark and the animals.  There is almost a 100 year period where Noah is preparing for the Flood – presumably enough time for people to hear how “crazy” he was and come to some conclusion.

We mentioned Noah’s attitude towards God in 6:9 “…He consistently followed God’s will and enjoyed a close relationship with him.” He and his family may not have understood exactly what rain was but they knew that God had their best interest at heart and that whatever He said to do was probably worth doing.

“But what about the fact that Noah then gets drunk and seems to be kind of a low life right after the flood?” Someone asked.  But does God only pick the best and the brightest, or does He work with whomever is willing?  God meets us where we’re at, and requires only a right attitude and a desire for relationship with Him – not perfect!

The flood seems to be a preventative measure to protect these people from themselves.  Does that seem arbitrary?  Perhaps.  A lady in our group explained it from her perspective that the God’s decision seems like a parent who doesn’t want their children experimenting with promiscuity because the parent works daily with HIV patients and sees first hand how awful the consequences to some life choices can be.  It isn’t that a parent don’t wish the child to “have fun” or live a “full life” but because the parent knows things that the child can’t and also knows that once the decision is made there isn’t always a way to undo those consequences.

In the end we asked a lot of questions, and though we aren’t certain of anything yet, we are beginning to see a view of God.  Our picture is still muddled and there are still a lot of loose ends, but we keep the loose threads in hand and keep weaving to see what else will appear in this rich tapestry.  God never asks us to believe without evidence and we are only starting to lay His cards out on the table.

Did I leave something out that you found interesting?  Please add your thoughts about the evening to the comments below – I try to take notes but there are times when we get so wrapped up in the discussion I lose track of all the interesting points!

Thanks again to everyone who came, it was a splendid evening!

Chapter 3 question

In our meeting last night someone brought up 3:15 (God speaking to the serpent) “From now on you and the woman will be enemies, and your offspring and her offspring will be enemies.  He will crush your head, and you will strike his heel.”

What do you think this means?  Here were some of our ideas.

The foot is a terribly gross thing to them, and it is most dishonoring to put your foot on someone’s head, therefore, whoever “he” is giving Satan the biggest insult.  And maybe the strike his heel is painful but not final?

Also, who is the “he” and “her offspring”  Could this be referring to the future coming of Christ and the church – since the church in the New Testament is often called a woman and bride?

Thoughts?

Meeting #1 Wrap up

Thanks to everyone who joined us last night!  I don’t know about you, but I had a great time and enjoyed such a nice discussion.

Here’s some of the questions that were raised and talked about:

Genesis 1-3
We see in this chapter a powerful and creative God.  He goes about creation deliberately He turns nothing into something, he turns chaos into order, but allows for great freedom and individuality within that order.  There is such great variety in our world now, we can only imagine what it might have been like at the beginning.

We wonder why God chose Earth.

He sets humans as caretakers, tenders and masters of this creation which He has imbued with creative power much like He has.

Someone brought up that if God is really Love, perhaps that it just the outpouring of that love that creates.  Does love = creation?  We all agreed that this is an interesting idea.  We ask, if God knows everything, and knows that we will fall, why does He create us?  Is He setting us up for failure?  But if He is Love and Freedom then perhaps He cannot NOT create us because it would imply that He did not give us Free Choice.  What do you think about this idea?

We talked about how it seems that there is a bigger story at play here.  In these three chapters there are only subtle hints, foreshadowing that something else is lurking in the background.  The tree of knowledge of good and evil implies that there is evil somewhere in the universe.  Did evil exist before Earth and outside of Earth even before our creation?  We were divided on this point.   Is evil the opposite of God – the opposite of love?  Or is it perhaps just the absence of love the way that cold is the loss of energy and heat.  Did God create Evil?  If He created Satan then He may have.

But if God is Love then He must give us the freedom to choose Him.  Someone equated it to keeping her husband locked in the house to stay married and faithful to her.  God cannot lock us up and hope that we will choose Him.  That is not love.

What is sin?  Does God kill us?  Does sin have natural consequences?

Is Adam and Eve’s choice to eat from the tree a matter of disobedience to God?  Is that why they are kicked out of the garden?  Is the tree a test to see how much we love God?

Can’t God just abolish sin and it’s awful consequences?  What kind of God does this?  Would he be seen fearfully the next time anyone dared disagree with Him?   Does love silence disagreement?

Satan’s lies to Eve are very clever.  He mixes truth with lies and creates doubt – a very good way to get people very confused.  His lies were basically “God wants to keep you in the dark about things so that you won’t be as powerful as Him.”  Haven’t we heard that before?  Then we wondered, what was Satan doing in the garden?  Why did God allow him to be there?  Can’t He protect Adam & Eve from Satan’s nasty ways?  Or is this not allowing real freedom in the universe?

How does God feel when He sees what happens to A&E?  Is He sad?  Disappointed?  Angry?  He seems angry when He begins cursing them.  But then we wondered, perhaps the curse is to protect them.  To keep them from having too many children, to keep them busy working and out of trouble.  Perhaps it was in His great mercy that He set up boundaries.  But isn’t it God who gives us resilience and the will to live?  Hope for a brighter future, that the next generation might go further than we can?

This is the first time death shows up, when God creates the animal skin clothing.  What must that have been like for A&E?

Is throwing A&E out of the garden an arbitrary decision?  He seems like he doesn’t want them there since they “know everything.”

We ended on the note that if God creates us together in relationships, and walks with us in the garden, then it would seem from our first reading that although we have many questions God is hinting at His great love for us.  He cannot protect us from things but He can give us what we need to get through even awful times.

What are your thoughts on some of the ideas we brought up?  What is your impression of God so far?

What is God Like?

As we begin our journey through the Bible to see who God is and what He’s like we began by asking what other people have said about Him.  Here’s our limited list:

God is….

mean.
tyrannical.
for stupid people.
for weaklings.
unreasonable.
arbitrary.
cannot be trusted.
intolerant.
judgmental.
unfair.
a teddy bear – soft and fuzzy, warm and cozy.
merciful.
omnipresent.
love.
compassionate.
forgiving.
patient.

We obviously don’t agree or disagree with all the things on this list, but realize that these things are about God.  Our aim is to figure out which of these is true based on the evidence He has set out before us to examine.

I believe in a God who never asks us to simply believe or obey because He told us to, but a God who wants us to think and reason with Him.

Are there things you’d add to the list above?  What have you found God to be like based on your own life and observation?